Two cockapoos who are brothers. Help!

by Kim


We got our first cockapoo (Harkley) when he was 8 weeks old from a breeder. We socialized him and trained him and everything was wonderful for the first year. The second year, he started nipping at children who would try to pet him. Now, he is 9 years old and no one can pet him besides me and my husband. He will even bite our kids so they just don't try to pet him ever. He is very lovable towards me but there are times when he will growl at me when I put him in his cage for the night. I believe he has terrible anxiety and fear.

The second cockapoo is his blood brother (Snickers). I took him in after my parents' passed away. He has been with us for 6 years now and he has his own aggression problems towards other dogs. So walking them is not pleasant. Lately, he has shown aggression towards people when we walk as well as me and my husband. Plus he is a bully to our other dog, Harkley.

They are also terrible when people come over. They bark and jump and I cannot get them to calm down. I have tried the reward method. I have had a trainer and a behavioral specialist but nothing can work because the kids are afraid and it would take all of us to be on the same page to possibly work.

Can someone please give me some advice. This is really starting to cause stress in our family.

Thank you.

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Sep 14, 2018
Dog Training Tips
by: Online Dog Trainer

Dog Training Tips

There are a few real keys to dog training, whether you are trying to train your dog to come when called, sit, stop barking or any other behavior. Understanding their importance is critical to achieving rapid results that are long lasting and help develop the bond between you and your dog.

The first is simple; you must win your dogs mind. If you don’t achieve this first then you will be struggling the all the way. When I talk about winning your dogs mind what I really mean is that your dog looks to you for all the decisions. Before you do anything else watch one of the amazing video sites that show you the 5 Golden rules to establishing yourself as the pack leader. If you aren’t putting these in place then you are setting yourself up to fail. Just at the crucial point where you really want your dog to listen they will go and do their own thing. For sure your dog may play ball occasionally or even most of the time, you may even have a dog that is obedient 99% of the time, however if you want a dog who always listens to you and does as you ask then you need to win your dogs mind.

The second key to success is to motivate your dog. It is really important that you discover what it is that your dog enjoys both in terms of exercise and play but also in terms of a reward. If you can make the experience enjoyable then you will both achieve more and look forward to training.

Some dogs love to fetch, others love agility, and other dogs simply love obedience training, or swimming out into water and retrieve. At least to start with find out what your dogs love is and help them develop this, what I am saying is work with your dog. The other point to recognize is to make training enjoyable reward your dog.

The three main rewards are:

Food- anything from a single dry biscuit to a whole piece of sausage!
Affection- pats, cuddles, lots of high verbal praise
Toys- games, throwing a stick or object, chasing your dog etc

Your dog is always going to work harder if you are fair in your training. Even if you do not want to use food you should make sure that you use affection accordingly when your dog does well

If you want to use food rewards then always follow these simple tips:

Always vary food rewards
Do not give food rewards every time
Never let your dog know what the reward is
If your dog doesn’t come first time then do not give them the reward

The third key to achieving perfection is practice! Learning how to encourage behavior that is closer to what you want than the last is the third key to success. Again this is where rewards come in so handy! Motivate and then show your dog what it is that you want and there is no need for any negative training!

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